{"id":2807,"date":"2026-07-10T18:38:47","date_gmt":"2026-07-10T18:38:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/index.php\/podcast\/"},"modified":"2026-08-17T15:05:20","modified_gmt":"2026-08-17T15:05:20","slug":"podcast","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/","title":{"rendered":"Podcast"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!-- Planning Your I Do podcast hub \u2014 generated by _build_hub_html.py --><\/p>\n<style>\n.yhm-podcast {\n  --yhm-navy: #0f172a;\n  --yhm-gold: #c9a227;\n  --yhm-slate: #64748b;\n  --yhm-slate-2: #475569;\n  --yhm-border: #e2e8f0;\n  --yhm-bg: #f8fafc;\n  max-width: 920px;\n  margin: 0 auto;\n  padding: 0 0 48px;\n  box-sizing: border-box;\n  font-family: inherit;\n  color: var(--yhm-navy);\n}\n.yhm-podcast *, .yhm-podcast *::before, .yhm-podcast *::after { box-sizing: border-box; }\n.yhm-podcast__brand {\n  display: flex;\n  flex-wrap: wrap;\n  align-items: center;\n  gap: 24px;\n  margin-bottom: 28px;\n}\n.yhm-podcast__brand-logo {\n  display: block;\n  width: 176px;\n  max-width: 40vw;\n  height: auto;\n  border-radius: 50%;\n  flex: 0 0 auto;\n}\n.yhm-podcast__brand-copy { flex: 1 1 280px; 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}\n  .yhm-podcast__card-actions .yhm-podcast__btn { flex: 1 1 auto; }\n}\n<\/style>\n<section class=\"yhm-podcast\">\n<header class=\"yhm-podcast__brand\">\n    <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"yhm-podcast__brand-logo\" src=\"https:\/\/i.scdn.co\/image\/ab67656300005f1faded7798a22f75a275349f74\" width=\"176\" height=\"176\" alt=\"Planning Your I Do podcast\" loading=\"eager\" \/><\/p>\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__brand-copy\">\n<h1 class=\"yhm-podcast__brand-title\">Planning Your I Do<\/h1>\n<p class=\"yhm-podcast__brand-meta\">Weekly \u00b7 ~20-minute episodes<\/p>\n<p class=\"yhm-podcast__brand-lead\">Each week we turn one stressful wedding-planning question into a manageable next step \u2014 for brides in their 20s who want clear, practical help without the pressure to make every choice perfect. Hosted with guidance from You Had Me At I Do: over 26 years and 400+ weddings as officiant and DJ.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/header>\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__subscribe\">\n<div>\n<h2>Listen &amp; subscribe<\/h2>\n<p>New episodes drop every week. Subscribe on Spotify so you never miss one.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__subscribe-actions\">\n      <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/033MGa40yUdvQg87RXYnP6\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Open in Spotify<\/a>\n    <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__list\">\n<article class=\"yhm-podcast__card\" id=\"episode-20\">\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-main\">\n<p class=\"yhm-podcast__card-eyebrow\">Episode 20<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"yhm-podcast__card-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/first-look-or-aisle-reveal\/\">First Look or Aisle Reveal? (No Wrong Answer)<\/a><\/h2>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-date'>Aug 17, 2026<\/p>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-desc'>If you&#8217;ve spent more than ten minutes on wedding forums, you&#8217;ve seen the debate: first look or aisle reveal? Photographers have opinions. Your mother has opinions. Pinterest has a thousand images of both, and every one of them looks like the most romantic moment ever captured.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-actions\">\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn yhm-podcast__btn--ghost\" href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/first-look-or-aisle-reveal\/\">Show notes<\/a><br \/>\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/2FbaSXtGd78qcBThaEJpfx\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Spotify<\/a>\n  <\/div>\n<\/article>\n<article class=\"yhm-podcast__card\" id=\"episode-17\">\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-main\">\n<p class=\"yhm-podcast__card-eyebrow\">Episode 17<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"yhm-podcast__card-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/registry-cash-funds-and-gift-etiquette\/\">Registry, Cash Funds, and Gift Etiquette<\/a><\/h2>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-date'>Aug 13, 2026<\/p>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-desc'>Few topics make engaged couples as nervous as gifts. You need things for your home. You&#8217;d love help with the honeymoon. You know your aunt will have opinions no matter what you choose.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-actions\">\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn yhm-podcast__btn--ghost\" href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/registry-cash-funds-and-gift-etiquette\/\">Show notes<\/a><br \/>\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/0pF1c8fUN9e5kbhc8XZ7jf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Spotify<\/a>\n  <\/div>\n<\/article>\n<article class=\"yhm-podcast__card\" id=\"episode-16\">\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-main\">\n<p class=\"yhm-podcast__card-eyebrow\">Episode 16<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"yhm-podcast__card-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/your-wedding-website-faq\/\">Your Wedding Website FAQ (So Guests Stop Texting You)<\/a><\/h2>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-date'>Jul 30, 2026<\/p>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-desc'>At some point in every wedding we&#8217;ve officiated, the couple&#8217;s phone starts buzzing with the same questions on repeat. What time should we arrive? What&#8217;s the dress code? Is there parking? Can we bring the kids? Where do we stay? Where&#8217;s the registry?<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-actions\">\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn yhm-podcast__btn--ghost\" href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/your-wedding-website-faq\/\">Show notes<\/a><br \/>\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/6EbTWmRTGfxF7bIFPvdLfn\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Spotify<\/a>\n  <\/div>\n<\/article>\n<article class=\"yhm-podcast__card\" id=\"episode-15\">\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-main\">\n<p class=\"yhm-podcast__card-eyebrow\">Episode 15<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"yhm-podcast__card-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/the-rsvp-black-hole\/\">The RSVP Black Hole<\/a><\/h2>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-date'>Aug 3, 2026<\/p>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-desc'>You send your invitations. You wait. You check the mailbox. You refresh your wedding website dashboard. And then you stare at a guest list full of question marks while your caterer gently asks \u2014 for the third time \u2014 how many meals they should prepare.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-actions\">\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn yhm-podcast__btn--ghost\" href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/the-rsvp-black-hole\/\">Show notes<\/a><br \/>\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/5ycQWqDZkdwpaAynKcriXd\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Spotify<\/a>\n  <\/div>\n<\/article>\n<article class=\"yhm-podcast__card\" id=\"episode-14\">\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-main\">\n<p class=\"yhm-podcast__card-eyebrow\">Episode 14<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"yhm-podcast__card-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/building-your-wedding-party\/\">Building Your Wedding Party (Without the Drama)<\/a><\/h2>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-date'>Aug 3, 2026<\/p>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-desc'>Somewhere between &quot;We&#8217;re engaged!&quot; and &quot;Who&#8217;s standing up with us?&quot; a lot of couples hit a wall. The wedding party question sounds simple \u2014 who are your bridesmaids and groomsmen? \u2014 but behind it sits a tangle of guilt, symmetry anxiety, family politics, and the quiet fear of hurting someone you love.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-actions\">\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn yhm-podcast__btn--ghost\" href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/building-your-wedding-party\/\">Show notes<\/a><br \/>\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/4aeB8mfKGkxx0E76uOWCrd\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Spotify<\/a>\n  <\/div>\n<\/article>\n<article class=\"yhm-podcast__card\" id=\"episode-13\">\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-main\">\n<p class=\"yhm-podcast__card-eyebrow\">Episode 13<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"yhm-podcast__card-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/two-families-two-traditions\/\">Two Families, Two Traditions (Without Choosing Sides)<\/a><\/h2>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-date'>Jul 21, 2026<\/p>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-desc'>Your wedding is where two stories become one \u2014 and if those stories come from different cultures, religions, or family traditions, the planning can feel less like a celebration and more like a diplomatic summit.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-actions\">\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn yhm-podcast__btn--ghost\" href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/two-families-two-traditions\/\">Show notes<\/a><br \/>\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/32tVf9XKANJcytcUEL5oK3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Spotify<\/a>\n  <\/div>\n<\/article>\n<article class=\"yhm-podcast__card\" id=\"episode-12\">\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-main\">\n<p class=\"yhm-podcast__card-eyebrow\">Episode 12<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"yhm-podcast__card-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/too-many-opinions-one-wedding\/\">Too Many Opinions, One Wedding<\/a><\/h2>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-date'>Jul 21, 2026<\/p>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-desc'>Somewhere between &quot;We&#8217;re engaged!&quot; and &quot;I do,&quot; almost every couple discovers a painful truth: a wedding is not just your wedding. It&#8217;s an event that dozens of people \u2014 parents, siblings, friends, future in-laws, that aunt who considers herself the family event planner \u2014 feel entitled to weigh in on.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-actions\">\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn yhm-podcast__btn--ghost\" href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/too-many-opinions-one-wedding\/\">Show notes<\/a><br \/>\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/6jfzFjm6iDxDGxY0ZaE78X\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Spotify<\/a>\n  <\/div>\n<\/article>\n<article class=\"yhm-podcast__card\" id=\"episode-11\">\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-main\">\n<p class=\"yhm-podcast__card-eyebrow\">Episode 11<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"yhm-podcast__card-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/when-your-partner-isnt-planning-like-you\/\">When Your Partner Isn&#8217;t Planning Like You<\/a><\/h2>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-date'>Jul 21, 2026<\/p>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-desc'>You&#8217;re three months into wedding planning. You have spreadsheets. You have Pinterest boards organized by color palette. You have vendor emails flagged, unanswered, and haunting you at midnight.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-actions\">\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn yhm-podcast__btn--ghost\" href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/when-your-partner-isnt-planning-like-you\/\">Show notes<\/a><br \/>\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/0UESx4I65ahOsCOTXy1dUp\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Spotify<\/a>\n  <\/div>\n<\/article>\n<article class=\"yhm-podcast__card\" id=\"episode-10\">\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-main\">\n<p class=\"yhm-podcast__card-eyebrow\">Episode 10<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"yhm-podcast__card-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/planner-coordinator-or-spreadsheet\/\">Planner, Day-of Coordinator, or Spreadsheet?<\/a><\/h2>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-date'>Jul 21, 2026<\/p>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-desc'>One of the most common questions we hear from couples \u2014 especially those trying to save money without losing their minds \u2014 is some version of this: &quot;Do I really need a wedding planner?&quot;<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-actions\">\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn yhm-podcast__btn--ghost\" href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/planner-coordinator-or-spreadsheet\/\">Show notes<\/a><br \/>\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/4sFnDbKJchAe1a7kZw0UsT\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Spotify<\/a>\n  <\/div>\n<\/article>\n<article class=\"yhm-podcast__card\" id=\"episode-9\">\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-main\">\n<p class=\"yhm-podcast__card-eyebrow\">Episode 9<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"yhm-podcast__card-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/venue-first-and-your-rain-plan\/\">Venue First \u2014 and the Rain Plan Before You Sign<\/a><\/h2>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-date'>Jul 14, 2026<\/p>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-desc'>We tell almost every couple we meet the same thing: book your venue first. Everything else \u2014 your date, your guest count, your catering style, your overall vibe \u2014 flows from that single decision.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-actions\">\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn yhm-podcast__btn--ghost\" href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/venue-first-and-your-rain-plan\/\">Show notes<\/a><br \/>\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/3l3eXlRVYpB2w4Qyg37wSm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Spotify<\/a>\n  <\/div>\n<\/article>\n<article class=\"yhm-podcast__card\" id=\"episode-8\">\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-main\">\n<p class=\"yhm-podcast__card-eyebrow\">Episode 8<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"yhm-podcast__card-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/hiring-vendors-you-can-trust\/\">Hiring Vendors You Can Actually Trust<\/a><\/h2>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-date'>Jul 14, 2026<\/p>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-desc'>After twenty-six years and more than four hundred weddings, we&#8217;ve seen the same story play out more times than we&#8217;d like: a couple falls in love with a vendor&#8217;s Instagram feed, hands over a deposit, and doesn&#8217;t discover the problems until the week of the wedding \u2014 or worse, months after.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-actions\">\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn yhm-podcast__btn--ghost\" href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/hiring-vendors-you-can-trust\/\">Show notes<\/a><br \/>\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/72fDT6OzuDfUZ8XiQjU96d\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Spotify<\/a>\n  <\/div>\n<\/article>\n<article class=\"yhm-podcast__card\" id=\"episode-7\">\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-main\">\n<p class=\"yhm-podcast__card-eyebrow\">Episode 7<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"yhm-podcast__card-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/pinterest-vs-your-real-wedding\/\">Pinterest vs. Your Real Wedding<\/a><\/h2>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-date'>Jul 13, 2026<\/p>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-desc'>Pinterest didn&#8217;t ruin your wedding. But it might be ruining your planning peace.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-actions\">\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn yhm-podcast__btn--ghost\" href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/pinterest-vs-your-real-wedding\/\">Show notes<\/a><br \/>\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/2oOMPKh9q1mwv8nKj0j0bi\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Spotify<\/a>\n  <\/div>\n<\/article>\n<article class=\"yhm-podcast__card\" id=\"episode-6\">\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-main\">\n<p class=\"yhm-podcast__card-eyebrow\">Episode 6<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"yhm-podcast__card-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/plus-ones-kids-and-clear-invitation-rules\/\">Plus-Ones, Kids, and Clear Invitation Rules<\/a><\/h2>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-date'>Jul 13, 2026<\/p>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-desc'>Somewhere between &quot;save the date&quot; and &quot;I didn&#8217;t know I couldn&#8217;t bring my boyfriend of six months,&quot; every couple hits the plus-one conversation.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-actions\">\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn yhm-podcast__btn--ghost\" href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/plus-ones-kids-and-clear-invitation-rules\/\">Show notes<\/a><br \/>\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/3GLOI2JkKC6lk3ng70jnfd\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Spotify<\/a>\n  <\/div>\n<\/article>\n<article class=\"yhm-podcast__card\" id=\"episode-5\">\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-main\">\n<p class=\"yhm-podcast__card-eyebrow\">Episode 5<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"yhm-podcast__card-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/when-parents-pay-and-the-opinions-follow\/\">When Parents Pay \u2014 and the Opinions Follow<\/a><\/h2>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-date'>Jul 12, 2026<\/p>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-desc'>Generous parents are a blessing. And sometimes, generous parents are a challenge.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-actions\">\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn yhm-podcast__btn--ghost\" href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/when-parents-pay-and-the-opinions-follow\/\">Show notes<\/a><br \/>\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/4mRtZgYZyCc70cXFh0y4fA\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Spotify<\/a>\n  <\/div>\n<\/article>\n<article class=\"yhm-podcast__card\" id=\"episode-4\">\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-main\">\n<p class=\"yhm-podcast__card-eyebrow\">Episode 4<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"yhm-podcast__card-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/guest-list-guilt-and-how-to-cut-it\/\">Guest List Guilt (and How to Cut It Without Cutting People Off)<\/a><\/h2>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-date'>Jul 12, 2026<\/p>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-desc'>If you&#8217;ve ever lain awake at two in the morning wondering whether you have to invite your coworker&#8217;s spouse, or your second cousin once removed, or your mom&#8217;s friend who watched you once at age four \u2014 you&#8217;re not alone.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-actions\">\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn yhm-podcast__btn--ghost\" href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/guest-list-guilt-and-how-to-cut-it\/\">Show notes<\/a><br \/>\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/1zMNNovoYWf9yTLXi8slhm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Spotify<\/a>\n  <\/div>\n<\/article>\n<article class=\"yhm-podcast__card\" id=\"episode-3\">\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-main\">\n<p class=\"yhm-podcast__card-eyebrow\">Episode 3<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"yhm-podcast__card-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/the-budget-talk-that-changes-everything\/\">The Budget Talk That Changes Everything<\/a><\/h2>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-date'>Jul 11, 2026<\/p>\n<p class='yhm-podcast__card-desc'>We need to talk about money.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-actions\">\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn yhm-podcast__btn--ghost\" href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/the-budget-talk-that-changes-everything\/\">Show notes<\/a><br \/>\n    <a class=\"yhm-podcast__btn\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/2oMtiukZbR7Vyz6akO86aC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Spotify<\/a>\n  <\/div>\n<\/article>\n<article class=\"yhm-podcast__card\" id=\"episode-2\">\n<div class=\"yhm-podcast__card-main\">\n<p class=\"yhm-podcast__card-eyebrow\">Episode 2<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"yhm-podcast__card-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/youhadmeatido.com\/podcast\/just-engaged-now-what\/\">Just Engaged \u2014 Now What? 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