• Beyond the “I Do”: What a Great Wedding Officiant Really Brings to Your Day

  • A lot of people think the officiant just shows up, says some words, and files the paperwork. But a great officiant? We do so much more than that.

    At You Had Me At I Do, we’ve spent over 25 years helping couples create ceremonies that are not only legal, but meaningful, memorable, and stress-free. Here’s what we really bring to the table:


    What a Professional Officiant Does:

    Guides You Through the Ceremony Planning
    We help you structure the entire ceremony, from processional to vows to the big kiss. We help you choose (or write) the right readings, rituals, and flow.

    Personalizes the Script
    We get to know your story—how you met, what you love about each other, and what you want your ceremony to feel like. Then we craft words that feel like you.

    Handles the Legal Side
    We make sure your marriage license is signed, sealed, and delivered—literally. No legal hiccups here.

    Collaborates with Vendors
    We sync with your planner, DJ, and photographer to make sure the timing, transitions, and cues are flawless.

    Calms Your Nerves
    We’re often the first face you see before you walk down the aisle. And we’re there to remind you to breathe, laugh, and soak it all in.


    The Result?
    A ceremony that doesn’t just check a box—it becomes the heart of your wedding day.


    📍 Planning your ceremony in Port St. Joe or beyond? We’d love to talk about how we can help make it unforgettable.