The New Name Checklist: 10 Steps to Changing Your Last Name

You’ve said your vows—now it’s time to update your ID. Changing your name isn’t a single step; it’s a domino effect. Follow this specific order to avoid getting stuck at the DMV.

1. Get Certified Copies: Order 3–5 certified copies of your marriage certificate. You’ll be mailing these to various agencies.
2. Social Security First: You must update the SSA before anything else. It’s free, and they notify the IRS for you.
3. The DMV: Once you have your new Social Security card (usually 10 days later), head to the DMV for a new Driver’s License.
4. Passport: If you have international travel coming up, keep your old passport until after the trip, then apply for a name change.
5. Bank Accounts: Visit your local branch with your new ID and marriage certificate to update your cards and checks.
6. Payroll & HR: Notify your employer so your W-2 and paychecks match your new legal name.
7. Insurance: Update your health, auto, and home insurance policies.
8. Voter Registration: Don’t lose your right to vote! Update this along with your driver’s license if your state allows it.
9. Utilities & Bills: Electricity, water, cell phone, and internet accounts.
10. The “Fun” Stuff: Social media handles, loyalty programs, and airline frequent flyer accounts.