- Inclusive ceremonies
Your relationship does not need to fit a template.
We use inclusive language by default and build the ceremony around your relationship, your people, and the way you want the moment to feel.
No assumptions. No awkward substitutions.
Partner, spouse, bride, groom, or the words you use for each other—we follow your lead. Religious, spiritual, cultural, and family traditions are options, not defaults.
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Same Sex Weddings
The only thing we care about is that our couples love each other and want to commit themselves to each other for the rest of their lives. It doesn't matter to us what that couple looks like. You don't choose who you love - love chooses for you! Whether you're a man and a woman, two men, or two women, we'll happily help you tie the knot and then party into the wee hours of the morning.
Having a same sex wedding does require a little bit of extra diligence from your Officiant and DJ. The majority of our weddings are hetero couples and much of what we say and do is pure habit. It takes a conscious effort to not fall into the pattern of 'bride and groom'. As you look around for vendors, be sure to ask if they've done same sex weddings in the past.
If you book us, no worries - we have that experience!
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